Hi Brian,
Nothing wrong with your sequence but there is no need to go as fine as 800 preparing for color coats. As a matter of fact, that's too fine and the color may not stick. 400 is probably as fine as you should go, it will give plenty of "tooth" to hold the paint and the paint will fill it and level. You could almost polish top coat after sanding with 800
You said you you sprayed 2 light coats of dope and it feels rough. Well, that's normal, what you need to do is shoot a wet flowing coat on it and the roughness will for the most part go away. Whats happened if that the light coats dryed too fast to flow out.