A few years back my brother died and no will to be found. Mom was natural executor by law but too old to deal with it so the courts allowed me to take that off her hands
Most are aware that passing without a will can be real problematic. In this case a lot of folks came out of the wood work with this or that claim against the estate... That was actually easy to deal with
The hardest part was sifting through all his stuff and trying to figure what to do with it all. Sorting, categorizing, and trying to estimate value is very time consuming and difficult.
When you are a court ordered executor you may NOT just throw it all away, give it away, donate it, or sell it, without documenting why you decided that disposal method...They demand an verifiable accurate estimate of the estate value for Taxes
With a will this is usually not an issue, and in most states keeps you out of probate courts
I still need to update our wills
I still need to catalog all this stuff for my son (he will be our executor)
We are leaving each of our children specific proportions of the Real Property minus any "stuff"
And giving my son legal authority to dispose of all the "stuff" as he see fit does not burden him with trying to fight with a sister about a few hundred$$ or thousand$$ more IF he had sold all the "Stuff" as her proportion of the total estate
A lot of what we are trying to do with our wills is prevent what we have seen on both our families over the years...the bickering and squabbling and out right theft of "stuff"