Oh my goodness, Scott! I can't believe the run of luck you and your family have had. All I can say is I hope things turn around for all of you. Hang in there. It's just a "rough patch" and you'll get through it. But, just to make sure, I've added your family to our family's prayer list. I don't really know you personally, but I don't think that matters in His eyes.
Keep looking up!