I cleaned up some of this thread and I am trying to keep it informational. Foam wing in the build state is slightly heavier than built up. I can see in the finish state it might be lighter. The one area where it's way heavier is the wingtips.
How you can tell this for yourself is put the nose to you stomach and one hand on each side and roll it tip to tip. Do this on every plane and try to keep that inertia down.
It can actually be measured in a similar way - suspend the airplane with a bit of music wire, so that it twists. Then measure the oscillatory frequency, compare to the oscillatory frequency of an object of known moment of inertia.
All else being equal, at the same weight, this airplane will be substantially stiffer than the built-ups, because the wood in the wing is in a more effective place - more at the edges than the middle. Even better, when it does flex, it will flex without inducing much trim change. That's the real advantage of foam wings, even more than the ease of building it straight.
Wings are not "stiff" or "flexible" as a binary function, they are all flexible to one degree or another, and flexible enough that it matters. They also change shape from day to day, and hour to hour. It has been our experience that the foam wing airplanes are much more consistent because it barely moves based on the conditions.
Finally, and this is not intended as "Sparky-bashing", exactly the opposite - if you think piloting is your only issue, I can help you get 25-50 points in a few days using this airplane. Without even seeing it fly. I suggest the same advice I gave you at the 2009 NATs to start with. We can do the rest of it off-line if you want.
Brett