Dallam,
To your post #33: Congratulations!
I was pressed for time in my last post, and Jim Kraft made a great suggestion before I could get back here. It doesn't take much unevenness where the flange meets the casting to bind things up.
Whenever I open a new Fox .35 to work on it, I examine the cylinder flange, top and bottom. For many years, there had been noticeable 'dishing' or 'coning' of the upper surface. Not much, and I lapped that surface on a glass plate, using 360 wet or dry sandpaper intially, then finer as the last of the off-level cut was removed. Then finally, lapped it to almost a mirror bright with my Lava soap paste.
For the bottom of the flange, if the casting deck is at the right height to establish the port timing I want, I do a similar thing as to the upper. Difference is that I cut a circle out of a piece of, say, 360 grit, fit it to an old spare sleeve to see how out of true the casting surface is. Usually they are pretty good. If so, the grit sandpaper goes 'grit up' to the engine's own sleeve flange to check that . Of course, if the cylinder is tight in the casting, it needs to be eased until it has a smooth, snug, but freer fit. (If I have to cut the casting deck to adjust timing, I use an old sleeve to help me 'square' it for the sleeve flange. After careful cleaning, finally, I Lava-lap the surfaces to each other and clean them again.
It also helps the head gaskets if you lap the top of the sleeve flange to the head, or head button for the clamp and button setups. Might take a wipe at the clamp on those, too. The less of voids, bumps, and irregularities there are, the squarer you can assemble that section of the engine.
And, by the way, I'm glad your lady is -apparently - good humored enough to go along with the jokes in this thread. (I'm just glad when you said even Viagra didn't work, that no one offered to tell YOU to use the Viagra, instead...)