Charles, part of your problem is that you use microballoons and epoxy ( or polyester resin, cant remember exactly,, not going to spend time to look,,)
SuperFill is the ticket,, and Unlike Randy and others, I use just my finger to shape it,, typically I have about 5 minutes of sanding on each fillet when its cured,, I use alchohol for a lube agent,, I also tape a guide line to protect the adjoining surfaces