This is going to vary from kid to kid. But for most kids I think the ideal trainer would be a Reniger ET-1 scaled up to 15 sized, and complete with radio controlled throttle.
I'd build it with out of wood, though.
Stay in the circle with them for the first few flights, and make sure to bring glue. I think the most positive learning experience I had with a kid on the handle was when she crashed on her second solo. The airplane broke, which shook her. I put it back together with CA and had her back in the air in ten minutes, and everything was all right.
I know that with my kids they got discouraged after the first crash -- after that they were scared to go up again, and since the airplane was RC it took some time to get it back together.
Edit: Maybe build two or three airframes, so that if the crash is bad enough you can just transfer equipment over...