Hello Gus:
Your soft screws are just the norm for fasteners sold today! I have found that screws, nails, bolts and nuts are so very soft that they are difficult to use. I confronted my local hardware dealer about the nails being so soft that I could not drive one into wood without bending it. I took a 16d nail from the bin and bent it with my bare hands! The slots in screws strip before they can be driven home. In many cases I have had the self threading wood screws break before they are driven to full depth. I pleaded to the owner of the hardware store begin stocking items that were usable but to no avail. I will gladly pay an additional cost for quality goods! Bolts and nuts are no better! Tough as nails? Not any more!
I have been told that these products are made in China from steel produced in India. Pure garbage! What ever happened to steel made in Pittsburgh, Cleveland etc.
I feel your pain,
Frank McCune