If you're in the clique.
I know there are preferences within the hobby. Something that excites one person is a differential flap setup, fancy electronics, carbon fiber and molded everything else. Doesn't matter how it looks or flies, they think you're a step beyond everyone else.
Others see anything with electric power and think you've emasculated yourself.
Just like some like Michael Angelo, and others like Van Gogh, and others like whatever's stuck to the fridge. There's room for all sorts, and if there weren't, This would be a lot more boring if everyone flew the same type of setup. Yuck.
But top of the scoreboard is the best flying plane on that day -I've only seen one contest where I watched the flights and disagreed with the judges, but that's the point of judges. Satisfying a human eye and what lies behind it. The winning pilot did a better job of satisfying the judges' eyes. No clique involved.
There's a "wow" people say only when they can't stop themselves. Preferences. No clique involved.
However, you're a 100% right that there are cliques and friends groups. There's the guys who sit out by the flight line, there's the guys who sit by the tent, there's the guys that sit by the cars. I'm sure not every group everywhere is as inviting as the next. But I've never met an unwelcoming group. If I've met you, you must have been welcoming, cause I've never met a rude stunt pilot, which doesn't make sense, so I'm sure there are some out there. You need some pepper in the soup, even an onion or two.
I'll stick by it, there's two categories for the ultimate airplane and sometimes one fulfills both.