I do not claim to be an expert on tip weights for CL scale models, but I do have some experience with these things.
Jim Fruit had some useful suggestions.
Of course, the amount of tip weight depends to some degree on the size of the model. One thing to keep in mind, it is better to have too much tip weight than not enough. You do not need to trim a scale model for flying like a stunt ship unless you are opting for some of the maneuvers called out as options appropriate for your model. (Then, a tip weight box might be useful, but still, start with what might be thought of as more than really necessary.) If you are flying what could be considered a "medium size" scale model like around 3 to 4 pounds (like a stunt ship though with a higher wing loading) use at least 1.5 oz. or even 2 oz. With a multi-engine model in this size, I would suggest another ounce or so to compensate when say the inboard engine(s) quit before the outboard engines. The weight will help keep the model out on the lines.
For these 1/2A multi-engine scale things (36 to 45" span, up to 2 pounds) that some are having fun with, I use an ounce or more. On the Tu 195 (four Norvell .061's) with a span of 58" and a weight of 64 oz, I used more than 2 oz. in the outboard tip with no adverse flying experience, at least from the tip weight.
For larger models and heavier models, more tip weight would be recommended. What you are looking for is that the outboard tip should be noticeably heavier when you pick up the model with the lines attached.
One of your questions sounds like you are planning to run your control lines though the line guide to somehow connect to your bellcrank or to short leadouts already connected to the bellcrank. I would recommend that you not do that. Instead, use some removable leadouts, as has already been suggested. The relative small diameter control lines that you will probably use (compared to "normal" leadout cables or solids) do not wear well when going through the guide and could result in a very surprising failure. (It might work for several flights, but there is no reason to have that risk.) Leadouts and the leadout guide can be removed for static judging and their appearance for the flight demonstration should not be a matter of downgrade for most contests.
Keith