Stab area isn't the whole of the story. The area of the stab, times the moment arm from the mean aerodynamic center of the wing to the mean aerodynamic center of the stab means a lot more. You can make this into a dimensionless number (and hence one that lets you compare apples to apples across all different sizes of planes) by using the "tail volume coefficient", which compares tail area x moment arm (the tail "volume") with the wing area x mean aerodynamic chord (the wing "volume").
Google tail volume coefficient for more info -- it's out there.
Or, just wait for Howard Rush to see this topic and explain how I'm kinda right, but leaving out a whole bunch of important information.
Flapless planes are a lot more forgiving as far as TVC goes -- basically, if the tail is small then the CG position gets more critical, but it never gets to the point where you can't actually control the thing.