Bob Hunt recently told me never to have the line spacing at the handle inside your grip. I pointed out that most hard point handles arms have clip attachment holes that bring the adjustments closer together. His reply was flip the arms upside down. He said to adjust control sensitivity at the airplane, not the handle.
Have to pretty strongly disagree with that one. Several of us have won an awful lot of hardware doing just the opposite. Adjust the airplane so it flies properly, then adjust the handle (however it needs to be) to make it suit your needs.
I speculate that you are misinterpreting the comments. In fact you probably want the controls in the airplane as slow as they can be and still provide the proper sensitivity which means a lot of spacing. What you don't want is really narrow spacing to compensate for the really fast controls. That's because with fast controls and slow handle you end up with reduced margin over the Netzeband wall.
The limitation is that if you build it with a small bellcrank, at some point you can't make it move any further. So altering the rest of the ratios doesn't matter.
Problem is, one you have built the airplane you frequently can't change the control ratios without cutting into it. Certainly you can't make the bellcrank bigger and usually you can't change the bellcrank-to-flap motion. So you want to use a big bellcrank, usually as big as will conveniently fit, and that will allow you to have reasonable spacing and decent control margin.
So, once you have built it and set the control ratios, you no longer have much control over it, you need to select the handle spacing that works. What you absolutely do not want to do, unless you can't avoid it, is compensate for control sensitivity with nose weight or tail weight. Back in the dark ages, you would build the airplane however it was, use whatever handle you happened to like, and if it was too twitchy put on nose weight and too sluggish, put on tail weight, regardless of whether the airplane was happy.
Brett