Well, I'll repeat my response in "that other forum" -
To quote a popular song sung by Doris Day:
When I was just a child in school,
I asked my teacher, "What will I try?
Should I paint pictures"
Should I sing songs?"
This was her
wise reply:
"Que sera, sera,
Whatever will be, will be;
The future's not ours to see.
Que sera, sera,
What will be, will be."
Life is too short to worry about it, Mike. If you want to insure that you’re at least “replaced”, one-for-one, grab a few neighbor kids and get them out. Invite them in to do some building. Maybe you’ll hook at least that one.
I wonder if you stopped to realize that you typed your comments and question at a computer - did you have one of those as a kid? I’m betting you wrote letters by hand, the “old-fashioned way” … My handwriting has gotten horrible, how’s yours?
The one thing we can be certain of in life is change. We can embrace it, we can try to be part of directing it, we can sit on the sidelines and deplore it, but we can’t stop it.
There will always be some of us crazies around. If we use RC to control our throttle and/or landing gear, will that be dumbing the hobby down?
And add a few thoughts -
We live in a very different age and society than when I first started. When I was a kid, anything that flew over captured our attention. From our small group of "boys", growing up and flying together in a town of perhaps 12,000 to 15,000 people, 3 or 4 became aero engineers. One just retired last year - at the age of 70 - from a long and enjoyable career at Northrop-Grumman. Another has owned 17 different airplanes to date, is an expert at painting them, and was a Fixed Base operator for several years.
We were mentored by adults who spent a lot of time with us. I won 2 state championships in Senior-Open Combat (and the high point trophy as well on the 2nd occasion) at contests where
I was driven and helped by mentors who didn't even compete themselves. We had one car in the family; my dad needed to drive it for his work on Sundays; adult mentors recognized my passion for the hobby and competition and simply volunteered. Are we doing that for kids today, or just wondering where they are?
I’ve surely made an effort … spending many, many hours with young men. My ex-wife and I occasionally drove 2 cars to contests just to haul kids. Perhaps one of my biggest thrills has been to see an aero engineer at Boeing, a Marine Corps pilot and an FAA traffic controller come out of that group; none of their fathers had any interest in airplanes.
Another young man I didn’t know from Adam - the nephew of my ex-wife’s co-worker - was invited to spend a week with us before a big contest. He walked away with a ton of awards and merchandise certificates; later he enlisted in the Air Force and was tragically killed in a training accident.
Great programs, publicity, hoopla might generate interest - but, in my opinion, there is no substitute for simple one-on-one mentoring.
So put aside the hoopla for now, find a kid and mentor him!
Dennis
