StayBrite should work perfectly well for this. You have all of the basics for a good silver solder job already, nice, tight fitting parts and everything antiseptically clean. That is the main critical aspect for me to get good results on any kind of solder joint whether it is soft solder or silver solder of any percentage. If you had problems with StayBrite failing, you probably didn't have a good fityting joint, or it wasn't clean or something caused insufficient flow of the material. Sometimes, it only takes a very small void to allow a joint to fail, and I'm speaking from personal experience here
In the horns as you have them pictured, I would follow this procedure; First, solder up the horn to the wire first, just enough to do the job. Next, I would solder the re-enforcement washer on either side, one at a time making sure everything is properly fluxed first. And I would do it all with a clean, well tinned 40 to 50 watt soldering iron with a broad tip. A torch can be used, but the other way that you can cause a silver solder joint to fail is to overheat the joint and cause oxidation, something you can't see. It's very very difficult to over heat a joint with a soldering iron.
And the best way to get proficient at all of this is to practice, practice, practice! It's the only way to Carnegie Hall! Make your mistakes on the practice pieces, and try testing them to destruction so you can see exactly what kind and how much stress they will take.
Good luck with it!
Type at you later,
Dan McEntee