It definitely sounds repairable. If the wing is intact by all means put it back together and try again.
Soldering is easy, it just takes some practice and simple precautions have to be followed. Tools make a difference too. Hardware store solder doesn't work too well for our purposes. I switched over to finer guage solder from Radio Shack recently and the result is that it melts more easily, quicker. The hardware store garbage I had used in the past wouldn't melt till after the bellcrank or horn started to melt.
Start by cleaning the parts to be soldered. I roughen the music wire with sandpaper, just whatever is handy. Take the washer and lay it on the sandpaper on the bench or block and rub it back and forth with a fingertip till its good and scuffed up. Clean the sanding dust off the parts with alcohol. Put the pushrod through the bellcrank or horn, and slide a piece of cardboard with a hole in the middle over the rod. Slide the washer in place and add a bit of flux to the washer and rod. When the soldering iron is hot enough I brush off the tip with a stainless steel scratch brush to get it clean, then if necessary melt a bit of solder to the tip. Apply the iron to the washer and rod at the same time, touch the solder to the tip at the washer to melt a fillet of solder between the iron and the parts to be soldered. The fillet of solder will allow the heat to transfer to the parts more effectively. At this point there may be enough solder for it to flow around the washer, if not add solder at the side opposite of the iron till it flows to form an even fillet entirely around the washer. When it has flowed out, remove the iron and let the parts air cool. After they're cool, rip off the cardboard insulator, clean up the joint with alcohol and a toothbrush, and inspect the joint. It should be smooth, shiny, with a complete fillet. If its not right, grab the washer with a plier and give it a twist/pull and it should come off clean so you can try again.
Hopefully that makes sense, if not I'm sure someone will correct me. Soldering is fun and the results will last the lifetime of the plane if its done properly.