I've had two that came to me with the stock backplate, and both have been fine. My best advice on overtightening is that if you never remove the backplate, you'll never overtighten it. If you do take it off, "tight enough" is just a hair more than finger tight -- it's easy to overtighten metal backplates of that design, and far easier yet to overtighten the plastic.
As for the "delay" with remote needles -- all of my OS LA engines (and my Tower 40) show a delay between adjusting the needle and the final speed of the engine. This is a population of engines that's split 50/50 between remote and front needle valve locations. I think it has everything to do with temperature and nothing to do with the needle arrangement (I cover the vent tube on the tank to lean the engine to peak, then check the RPM after it's settled from that -- I get a much more reliable RPM setting that way).
The thing that a remote needle WILL do to you that a normal one won't is that on a profile it's almost inevitable that the siphon action will break at the spraybar, and air will be sucked back to the needle. So you need to give it a healthy enough prime that it'll get fuel pulled to the spraybar in time to keep working. This isn't hard, it's just something to be mindful of.
For rather screwy reasons involving doing software testing on a gizmo that Howard Rush uses in his electric, I have a remote needle in my big stunter. I've had all kinds of other problems with my setup, but not the needle.