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Title: My wife passed away!
Post by: Annette Elmore on February 16, 2008, 03:06:53 PM
Hi all!

Just to let you know my wife 'and best friend' of 35 years Carolyn passed away Tuesday.

She was diagnosed with SLE (look it up) 25 years ago.

20 years ago she had Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma (a form of cancer).

About 5 years ago she was diagnosed with Scleroderma (look it up).

4 years ago I lost my highly paid job (as a computer programmer).

3 years ago I started work at Sainsburys.

2 Years ago my wife was diagnosed with Pulmonary Fibrosis and Hypertension (look it up).

For the last year and a half she was housebound and on oxygen 24x7 and on so many tablets I'm surprised she didn't rattle.

It was Pneumonia that finally did for her - but she was a fighter.

Having tried to squeeze in Aeromodelling between caring for Carolyn has left me little time - but when I get back on track (Carolyn's hobbies were dolls' houses and cardmaking - she has a vast collection of both to dispose of) I hope to eventually to do a bit more Aeromodelling!

PS Any one want an unused Valentine Card for next year? (Got to keep a sense of humour)!

Tony
Title: Re: My wife passed away!
Post by: Bill Little on February 16, 2008, 03:46:37 PM
I will remember you in prayer, Tony.
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Post by: Phil Coopy on February 16, 2008, 05:32:59 PM
Our prayers Tony.....

Phil & Joyce Coopy
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Post by: James Mills on February 16, 2008, 05:35:52 PM
Tony,

So very sorry to hear of this, we will keep you and your family in our prayers.

James
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Post by: john e. holliday on February 16, 2008, 08:10:34 PM
At times like this it is very hard to find humor.  Hopefully you will remember all the good times and forget the bad.  It must take an awful lot of fortitude to go thru what you have been thru.  Remember the modeling family is here if you need help.  Yours,  DOC Holliday
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Post by: Paul Taylor on February 16, 2008, 09:33:09 PM
One thing I always try remember in times of loss is that God's timing is perfect. He is never early or late for anything. We are never ready to let someone go.
We will keep you in our prayers.

Paul
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Post by: Randy Powell on February 16, 2008, 09:38:34 PM
Tony,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I've been married for more than 30 years and don't know what I would do without my wonderful wife. I think about that sometimes and it is not pleasant. Keep you sense of humor. It is the best thing for you.
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Post by: Dennis Adamisin on February 16, 2008, 10:29:25 PM
Tony:
...add my thoughts & prayers along with everyone elses for you in dealing with your loss
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Post by: RC Storick on February 16, 2008, 11:48:01 PM
Sorry for your Loss. God Bless
Title: Re: My wife passed away!
Post by: Allen Goff on February 17, 2008, 06:00:39 AM
Tony; So sorry to hear of your wife's passings. It is a special blessings to have had her as your best friend also. 35 years of love and friendship to one women is truly a special relationship in todays world. As you can see here on this form, you have many friends. My prayers go up for you and your family at this time. Gods blessings on you Tony.

Allen
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Post by: Michael Boucher on February 17, 2008, 06:40:40 AM
Tony,  I am so very sorry for your loss.  Will keep you both in our prayers.  God Bless
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Post by: rustler on February 17, 2008, 01:37:01 PM
Sympathy Tony. For a long time you have said she wasn't well, but you never let us know how serious it was. Ian R.
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Post by: Bill Adair on February 17, 2008, 02:32:41 PM
Tony,

So sorry to hear of your loss.

Don't know what I'd do, without my lovely wife of almost fifty years.

Bill
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Post by: Larry Cunningham on February 17, 2008, 03:21:18 PM
It's a very sad thing; I don't know if I could cope with the loss of my sweet
wife Gail.

Now is the time to allow your friends to help you share your grief.

God bless her, and God bless you.

L.
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Post by: Keith Polzin on February 17, 2008, 08:56:59 PM

  God bless.
 I know you loved her. I know it hurts.
  ]
  Keith
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Post by: Keith Spriggs on February 17, 2008, 09:11:03 PM
You are fortunate to have so many friends to share your sorrow. You have not met all of us, but they are your friends none the less.
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Post by: George on February 18, 2008, 07:32:00 AM
Tony,

My sincerest condolences. I can only imagine what you are going through. 

Perhaps it is time for all of us to pause and reflect on what we have. Sometimes we take them for granted.

My prayers are with you.

George
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Post by: Glen Wearden on February 18, 2008, 07:38:22 AM
Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers, Tony.   Glen
Title: Re: My wife passed away!
Post by: Will Hinton on February 18, 2008, 09:18:05 AM
Tony,
You are definitely a very strong and admirable man to have made the journey you have made and still be in love and have the sense of humor.  I simply cannot imagine what that loss is like, nor do I even want to.  My prayers are going up for you to the One who loves us even more than we can imagine.
God's best for you,
Will