Clean both the mating surfaces, IF and only If you see dings are abnormal dents etc, use some 400 wet sandpaper and flatten them, Use metal duct tape as a gasket . this is the tape I have used for over 25 years now,It looks like think polished aluminim tape . I never have headers come loose , use blue locktight on clean grade 8 bolts, you can use lock washers if wanted. The metal Duct tape has a sticky side with paper backing, stick it onto the header ...ONLY, then you can very quickly use a #11 Xacto and trim out the hole in the middle and the 2 bolt holes, DO NOT forget this step...some have... Bolt them together and put 15 inch pounds torque on the bolts, They will stay this way and very very rarely have I ever heard them coming loose.
DO NOT use gasket material that is thick, it will crush and the bolts will get loose, '
DO NOT get the bolt holes in the case full of silicone.
be VERY careful if you use silicone
DO NOT use cheap bolts, or worn bolts or washers.
Randy