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Online Mike Griffin

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Memorial Day
« on: May 29, 2022, 11:07:19 PM »
This is what Memorial Day is all about, not cookouts and parties or and extra day off work.  I did not know this man or the person who posted this on facebook but I was a soldier at the same time they were.

 When you are a soldier and have lived through seeing this happen over and over, there is a special bond that is shared that is inexplicable if you have not lived it yourself.

So please read and remember why there is a Memorial Day and the men and women who gave all for our freedom. 

Here it is: (it was written in 2015 but the message is ageless)

Forty-seven years ago my buddy, John Smythe Manchester, died in a rice paddy in Gia Dinh Province, South Vietnam. He was 22 years old.
John never had a cell phone or a computer or an Ipad.  He never heard of Samsung or Apple or Verizon. He never texted, chatted or emailed. He never had a facebook page or a Twitter account. He never had a pair of Nikes or Adidas. He knew we were trying to put a man on the moon, but he died before we made it. He never saw a space shuttle. He knew Ronald Reagan was an actor, but never dreamed he would become the President.  He never married, never had children, never had grandchildren. His parents buried him.
His name is engraved in the black granite on the Wall in Panel 52E, Row 40.
John and I were First Lieutenants and Platoon Leaders in  Charlie Company, 2nd Battalion, Third Infantry (Old Guard), 199th Light Infantry Brigade. I had the 2nd Platoon and he had the 3rd.
On Memorial Day, Monday, May 25, 2015, I will get up at 6:00 AM and drive into DC and visit with my friend. There will be a few people there, but the crowds will not arrive until later in the day and we will be mostly alone. I don't know if he can hear me, but I talk to him as though he can in the kind of crude language that infantry soldiers use to talk to each other.
I always wonder if anyone else ever comes to talk to him. I am 70 now and I wonder how many more years I will have to visit with him and let him know that I still remember him.
John was a soldier's soldier. He and I would talk privately about our fears, but never in front of the men we were charged with leading.
I wish he had made it back. We would have been life long friends.
On Memorial Day, please spend just a moment remembering the men and women, like John, who gave their lives for our country.
« Last Edit: May 29, 2022, 11:32:52 PM by Mike Griffin »

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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #1 on: May 30, 2022, 06:17:34 AM »
Hi Mike. Your story grabbed my heartstrings. "I wish he had made it back. We would have been lifelong friends." Perhaps in a sense Mike, he did and you have been.



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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2022, 09:29:15 AM »
Thank you, Mike, for causing these tears today, all of America needs them.  And as always, thank you and God bless you for your service.  I'm not sure anyone who hasn't served, and especially in combat, like yourself, can fully understand just how close two people who are not blood family can become like we do in the military.
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« Reply #3 on: May 30, 2022, 10:15:06 AM »
Thanks Mike for sharing.  I'm one of those that Uncle Sam deemed unworthy to serve in the Army and told not to try any of the other services.  Watched my class mates and friends go and serve and can't thank them enough for doing so.  Heard a lot of stories and was told to be glad I didn't get in.  But, I think I missed a lot. D>K
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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #4 on: May 30, 2022, 03:02:22 PM »
I know that today is the day we honor the fallen, but there is another group that needs remembering as well, the survivors.  Coming home from war does not mean you are not a casualty.  My Stepfather, real father and his two brothers all came home from WWII uninjured physically.  They served in both theaters and were part of many of the operations they made movies about.  All were decorated and none of them ever talked about the war sober.  I am a Vietnam vet and so is one of my younger brothers, the youngest a vet of Desert Storm.  My son in law served three tours in Afghanistan.  We talk about the military a lot among ourselves but rarely if ever about war.  It is the "brotherhood" of those that have served and we have veteran's day to honor them but I think some of Memorial Day belongs to those who carry the awesome burden of surviving.

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« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2022, 03:26:14 PM »
Amen, Ken, amen.
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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #6 on: May 30, 2022, 03:59:02 PM »
Thanks Mike for sharing.  I'm one of those that Uncle Sam deemed unworthy to serve in the Army and told not to try any of the other services.  Watched my class mates and friends go and serve and can't thank them enough for doing so.  Heard a lot of stories and was told to be glad I didn't get in.  But, I think I missed a lot. D>K

Doc, you missed out on a lot of cleaning, mopping, and weed-pulling...

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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #7 on: May 30, 2022, 05:47:58 PM »
This is what Memorial Day is all about, not cookouts and parties or and extra day off work.  I did not know this man or the person who posted this on facebook but I was a soldier at the same time they were.  When you are a soldier and have lived through seeing this happen over and over, there is a special bond that is shared that is inexplicable if you have not lived it yourself. So please read and remember why there is a Memorial Day and the men and women who gave all for our freedom. Here it is: (it was written in 2015 but the message is ageless)

Quote from: a Vietnam Vet
Forty-seven years ago my buddy, John Smythe Manchester, died in a rice paddy in Gia Dinh Province, South Vietnam. He was 22 years old. [...] His parents buried him. His name is engraved in the black granite on the Wall in Panel 52E, Row 40. John and I were First Lieutenants and Platoon Leaders [...] John was a soldier's soldier. He and I would talk privately about our fears, but never in front of the men we were charged with leading. I wish he had made it back. We would have been life long friends. On Memorial Day, please spend just a moment remembering the men and women, like John, who gave their lives for our country.

Thanks for sharing, Mike. Yes, it is a time of remembrance of those who passed, paying the ultimate price of war.

My father is buried in a cremation wall at Punchbowl National Cemetery, Honolulu, HI, died 1995. Was a WW2 veteran in France, after, Korean era (stationed in Japan) and Vietnam era (stationed stateside). My mother passed Jan. 2020, wasn't able to visit her because of Covid, she is now interned with him. My 2 brothers and I all joined, I (Army); my two younger brothers went to college first, one retired as an Air Force Major, KC-135 navigator, the other as a Commander in Navy Reserve with 12 years active. I was the only enlisted (joined after high school).

Doc, you missed out on a lot of cleaning, mopping, and weed-pulling...

I had a friend in the Army Reserve, who served at Schofield Barracks the same time I did back in the early 1970's. (I was initially at Fort Shafter, Honolulu, they deactivated my unit in 1974 and transferred me to Schofield.) He trained as a Mandarin translator, got stationed at Helemano field (where all the communications gear was, near Schofield). He was hoping to get active with doing hands on translating, but spent his several years washing trucks, painting buildings, fences, and rocks, why he did only 1 hitch. Garisson Army always has things to do. LL~

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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #8 on: May 30, 2022, 06:36:41 PM »
Yeah....I painted my share of rocks too....the last one in 70'.

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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #9 on: May 30, 2022, 07:46:41 PM »
I was attached to the 25th infantry division with the 147th Avn. Co. Thankful to those who fought, died, were wounded, MIA, and made it back home. Thank you for your sacrifice. They are the original first responders. May God bless America.
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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2022, 08:56:11 PM »
We are blessed to have a wonderful museum here at our air park community. Tonight in recognition of Memorial Day, they had a screening of the film “To What Remains”, the story of Project Recover, an organization dedicated to finding and returning our country’s MIAs.

It was a fascinating and sobering tale of their work to research, look for, and find lost aircraft, the remains of their crews and return them to their home.

https://www.towhatremains.org/

https://www.projectrecover.org/

Visit the two links above.  Time well spent.

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Re: Memorial Day
« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2022, 09:40:42 AM »
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