Weight is ~28.5 oz.
Slower controls are doable - I'm currently at center B.C. hole, 2nd in on the horn.
I have an EZ-Just, so nothing there.
Slow the controls down as much as you can at the elevator, then order a Fancher-style handle from Brodaks or make one yourself.
And I'm ok with (if not great at) the first four - my stumbling block is that first proper loop.
The best way to survive a single loop -- assuming your engine isn't cutting out -- is to concentrate on making it big and swoopy for the first half, then giving in to your natural tendency to say "oh SH**" at the top along with full up elevator. If you do this as described, you'll exit the loop about ten feet higher than you entered it -- which is good. Altitude is your friend. Starting high is probably a good idea, too.
Starting your first loop at five feet, giving up elevator and thinking "ohgodohgodohgod" while the airplane is just doing it's thing is pretty much a guarantee that it'll whack the ground.
I'm a big for beginners doing survivable maneuvers, no matter how ugly. Once you can do the maneuver AT ALL, then you can work on doing the maneuver nicely.