I do not know of anyone that can make the rod for you, but when you do find someone, have them duplicate the Davis Diesel unit exactly if you can. One thing you may try with the stock rods, and add to the after market rod is oiling holes drilled into the rod ends. I do not see any in either rod. That simple adding may make either rod last longer. It may be possible to have the existing Davis rods rebushed also at some savings.. I worked part time at a local hobby shop for 35 years and sold many Traxass products and the first word of caution to everyone was to break in the engine per instructions and to NOT run the engines to rich at the beginning, and to keep them cleaned out. The rod failure that you posted the picture of is typical of what can happen. If you have the exact dimensions of the Davis rod maybe you can cross reference with other manufacturers to see if their stock rods are any better. These things run kind of like a light switch, on and off the throttle A LOT and almost never run at high RPMs for any duration. I would suspect that they aren't getting the engines up to a good operating and temp and keeping it there, and hard to do when on and off the RPM so frequently.. I can't remember if the 3.3 too hot or cold plugs but experimenting with different heat ranges may help, and maybe even cutting back on head cooling fins a bit. Traxxas has a pretty liberal trade in program where you can trade in an old engine for a new one pretty cheaply, so these are designed and built to be almost disposable. These guys want and need these engines to rev quickly, both up and down, and so they don'r run much oil, some times as little as 12% and maybe less, and that doesn't help the reliability and longevity issues. Oiling holes in the rod ends would have to help I would think and certainly wouldn't hurt to try.
Good luck with it,
Dan McEntee