MM:
No one's given you the symptoms of a tail- or nose-heavy plane.
So do a search! In the mean time, here's my attempt, subject to correction by experts:
Tail heavy planes will:
- Not track well in level flight
- Really slow down when the engine cuts out, and be difficult or impossible to whip effectively
- Be very sensitive on the controls
The tendency to tighten up in maneuvers that you report is, I think, a tail-heavy symptom, too, but I'm not standing behind that one until I'm smarter.
Nose heavy planes will:
- Be "heavy" in maneuvers
- Track really well in level flight (assuming everything else is right)
- Whip very easily, particularly if they're heavy overall
So to some extent you should probably mess around with the CG, within the limits that Randy's mentioned, and see what you like, keeping in mind what the CG will do to you. I think it's been said already, but get the CG where it belongs
first, then decide if the plane is too heavy.