Aren't Grip Washers sold in USA?
Aki
http://www.shop-online.jp/mnti/index.php?body=spec&product_id=955518&category_id=88711&PHPSESSID=416abb6fb4d5da5a249e42b8c9bf474e
Well, apparently not. Perhaps some industrial supply place might have them. I tried Central Hobbies in Billings, Montana, thinking that they would be a most likely source, but with no luck. Using their website's search function for "grip washers", OK Model products, "abrasive washers", etc. No luck! If anybody can find them at McMaster-Carr or someplace like that, please post! I just emailed Central Hobbies to see if they might bring them in or maybe find a domestic source.
I rather like a "stubby" box-end wrench from Craftsmen to tighten props, but often use the standard box-end wrenches. A Machinist's Handbook (I think I burned mine!) should provide torque specs for any given sized screw, but IIRC, you'd need to know what grade the bolt/nut are. Should be some help, if you decide to make the plunge for an inch-ounce torque wrench. I'm sure Tim will be along in a minute with a chart.
On the various OS and Magnum engines I've run, most got a spinner attached. If I want to run without a spinner, I throw the OEM nut away and install a 1/4-28 Grade 8 nut from the local hardware store. No reason to have a UNF thread with a metric hex. I'm fine with the French system, but can't abide mixing the two systems together.

Steve
EDIT: I already got a reply from Central Hobbies. They don't seem interested and say the abrasive washers are not available. I can't think of another hobby shop that imports stuff direct from Japan, or that would be interested in doing so. Shazbot.