Hello Lyle,
Spot on summary. I have used silver solder for 50 years. I used to bind any joints with iron wire, but that isn't applicable here. Using the correct flux and heat source (I use oxy-acetylene) and good technique, I have never had a failure . I have broken joints in a pro test rig and you can see the flow of the silver bearing alloy. NEVER a dry joint. I silver solder model steam locomotive boilers, hence I have a good supply of expensive silver solders! On very rare occasions I have used ordinary brazing rod and the correct flux. This too gives rock solid brazes, although it doesn't flow quite as well as the silver alloys. Stay-brite type solders are not good enough for the job in most cases. It has far less strength than silver solder or braze and I have seen loco boilers develop bad leaks around the fire box foundation rings due to its use, by shall, we say, less than well informed people. A metallurgist friend of mine looked at these failed seams and declared they were stress cracks throughout the soldering medium. If it isn't good enough for boilers pressed to 120 pounds per square inch, then it isn't good enough for us!
A couple of silver soldering rods doesn't cost the earth and you do not use much per joint, bronze rod is even cheaper so it really isn't expensive to use to use. A Map cylinder will last forever in this application. Why on earth risk a valuable plane that you have spent a whole lot of time building, for a few dollars "saved"?
I get plenty of practice at silver soldering and you need to do a few practice joints before doing the real thing, as long as the solder flows well, you know you have got it right. Too much is made of the acid flux residues, you have to clean the flux off, because it makes the joint unsightly. I then dip the joint in a commercial degreasing solution (cleans engines too!). If it is a boiler, then I "pickle" it in an acid solution (usually dilute sulphuric acid). not worth bothering about for non copper items.
Andrew.