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I would strongly discourage the use of Sta-Brite flux for fuel tanks, or just about anything else. The corrosion problem is very serious and it cannot be effectively neutralized, but more importantly, it is not necessary. Also, do not use it for soldered washers on wheels, control horns, etc either, because the corrosion of the shaft will later wear out the bearings.
If you want to use 4% silver-bearing solder for its slight additional strength, the the Kester rosin-core 4% solder.
Regular old 60-40 rosin core is strong enough for tanks unless you do something strange and you certainly do not need to put any significant amount of acid flux on a tin-plated surface.
BTW, while having clean metal is generally desirable, avoid anything like sandpaper, wire brushes, etc. You do not want to take a chance on removing the tin plate, then you *are* stuck with acid fluxes.
For control horn construction, Sta-Brite is not adequate to hold the upright to the cross-bar unless you do something mechanically to reduce the load on the solder. Keith Trostle's method, fit up carefully, is adequate. For this you do have a chance to clean it up adequately, but don't just rinse it and hope for the best, you need to use scotch-brite or something to remove the metal surface, and lube it carefully before putting on the bearings.
If you want to construct a control horn with a conventional upright and wire, forget anything you can melt with a soldering iron. Get silver solder or braze and a torch.
Brett