Yes, I know what you mean.

But it does work!!!!!
I always parallel charge and they are balanced well every time.

Parallel charging might be OK if you have all good batteries.  Even if the cells have different internal resistance during charging, the weak ones should catch up during the constant-voltage charging phase.  I would worry, though, that a battery could have an undetected bad cell that would show up in an overhead eight.  Also, hooking up these powerful, low-IR batteries in parallel seems like a bad idea to me.  I checked battery voltage before hooking two in parallel and still one pair of cells was sufficiently different to smoke a trace on my board.  Then there is the issue of having a live, exposed male connector while you're connecting them.  Parallel-hookup boards for LiPo batteries should have some monitoring circuitry.