I prefer the Tettra Tanks above all others. Amazingly consistent runs. My version of "the proper" setup is:
Feed/fill line inserted about 1/3 of the tank length back from front, bent over to the outboard side (no clunk), with a ½" length of silicone tubing to prevent wear on the bladder. Muffler pressure to the other fitting. I also install the tank with the longer axis of the rectangular cross-section vertical, although this probably isn't critical.
Filling requires 2 - 3 cycles of sucking air and adding fuel. I use a Jett "Tanker", which is about 13 oz. max. Put the needed amount of fuel into the Tanker, hook up to the fill line, suck air out, invert the Tanker and fill the bladder. Turn the Tanker back over and suck as much air out as possible, re-fill. Repeat. It is necessary to turn the wing vertical with the inboard tip down to completely fill the bladder. Then you can remove fuel as required to adjust runtime. Clamp the feed line with a hemostat until ready to start the engine.
I have not experienced the problem of the bladder collapsing in the middle, but I can offer two possible solutions. The simplest would be to disassemble the tank and rotate the bladder 180⁰. Then reassemble the tank and try again. The other solution is to use a longer piece of fuel line with several "v" notches cut into one "side". Then, if the bladder collapses, it will seal off one or more notches, but not all of them.
One other possibility occurs to me. There may may be a problem with the location of the muffler pressure tap. Randy Smith informs me that it's possible for some positions in the muffler to generate a negative pressure. If high enough, this could certainly collapse the bladder.
If none of these ideas work, the bladder may be defective. I would certainly try another example before giving up on this style of tank!