I run into the problem using Veco spinners, especially with Fox .35s! LOL!! But I have had the problem before. The Vecos have a Union Nut that goes through the prop and is made of aluminum. Maybe I am just not cautious enough, but I never worry about using a box end wrench to get it tight. In fact, I have even broken a wood prop while tightening a nut.
As to the emery cloth "coming apart", or "spewing parts during an official flight", that is just absurd. I have never used sandpaper.
I wouldn't give a suggestion unless I am 99.9999999999999999999999% sure it works and will give no problems.
BIG Bear