I tend to use the aluminum or brass Harry Higley "safety" nuts. What I like about them is that they are easy to service, being a single part in front of the prop instead of the several parts that spinners entail. Also, they come in different weights, which can make trimming easier.
But, glad to hear the "go with grade five" comment. While grade 8 would work, the compliant grade 5 sounds better for a crank.