The leadout length specifications really confuse the issue. You can make the leadouts any length you want. Here'e what's important: Lay your handle on the workbench, and pull the trigger all the way back. Measure the difference in the lengths of the up and down cables compared to the throttle cable. Now push the trigger all the way forward and measure again. Note that when you push the trigger forward, the throttle cable retracts into the handle and the up/down lines extend out. The movement of the throttle cable relative to the up/down cables is what you want to measure. Now, do the same thing with the bellcrank. If the measurements match, you're all set.
The old, original J-Roberts handles and bellcranks have less movement than the G&S/ L&R/ Brodak handles and bellcranks. (Unfortunately, Brodak clouds the issue by labeling their handles "Brodak-J-Roberts".) If you use and "old" handle with a "new" bellcrank, you won't get full throttle travel coming from the bellcrank. This can still be made to work, as long as you get full travel at the carburetor. However, if you use a "new" handle with an "old" bellcrank, the bellcrank will "bottom out" at one or both ends of the throttle travel. This will cause line(s) to go slack, which is a bad thing. If the pilot is aware of the possibility, he can work around it.
All that being said, it is best to use stuff that matches. It's tricky enough to make it all work anyway, so why make it harder?