Frank,
You have come up with a good basic idea and design here for a trike stooge. I haven't watched the video clip yet, but this isn't something that needs to be terribly overthought. I'm not going to point fingers, but some guys
WAY overthink too many things in this hobby, just wasting their own time, and that of others who don't know any better. And please, no one needs to take that comment personally.
I've designed, built, and used what I call "forked" stooges of this general type. When I mentioned the arm length earlier, all I meant was a suggestion that the arms might be made an inch or so taller so the model can't jump over while you're walking out to the handle, simple as that. This was an observation based on the provided photos of this particular stooge and airplane combo. Putting "kinks" in the dowel arms won't do anything for you here except make it take you longer to build the thing, and/or design in another potential failure or "snag" point. With stooges of this type, some proper size foam pipe insulation wouldn't be a bad idea, but with it's ONLY purpose being to protect the finish on the model.
Assuming that the action of the stooge itself is completely free, light, and smooth, the model riding up over the arms during the stooges release action should be no problem whatsoever. I find that I remind myself of it all the time, more often than not the old adage "Keep It Simple Stupid", is the right way in the end.