Will:
Radio Shack magnets are what I use. Yes, they are strong, but you can take advantage of that in your design. My favorites are the round ones, (about 3/16", I would guess). Just drill the right sized hole and epoxy them in. Make sure you get the polarization correct (don't ask me how I know). A magnet immediately under your pick hole will offer the most resistance (well, two would offer more). If you feel that would be too strong of a resistance, move the magnet to a position away from the pick hole. In other words, let a little lever action help in overcoming the strength of the magnet. They are really not that difficult to work with. Definitely use the rare earth magnets. No weight, lots of strength. Definitely do not use the ceramic magnets. They weigh a lot and are comparatively weak.
Jim Fruit