Hi Rafael,
1-1 is the standard staring point for most everyone, unless they know from previous builds of the same plane that something different is expected. If the model is lighter, then it can usually benefit from more elevator than flap. it does depend on all the variables, especially wing loading and tail volume, but starting at 1-1 seems to always be safe. If you have an adjustable "slider" horn on the elevator, then you can experiment with more elevator and see what the effect is. I know that Ted, and others, say a heavier plane will need 1-1 for sure since it will need the wing to generate more lift. More flap also creates more nose down pitch when the flaps deflect.
I have not heard of anyone having the elevators start to deflect before the flaps. So no help there.
And, do you mean that the pushrod is going to be "length adjustable"? That will be effective if you need to bias the elevator, up or down, compared to flap neutral. Many times a droop is installed on the elevator to equalize inside and outside turn rates since some designs will naturally turn easier inside than outside. On my son's latest stunter, it appeared to fly a bit "low in the tail" in level flight. abut 1 1/2 turns to shorten the elevator pushrod (droop the elevator) brought the tail up to where the fuselage appeared level in flight.
Personally, I have found that on a light stunter, more elevator throw in relation to flaps (like a 2-3) gives a better turn response. But on a heavier model closer to 1-1 works best.
Having the slider horn is a good way of finding the effect different flap/elev ratios have on a model, and can be a real tool in trimming.