Huh. I can't find the useful links section, either.
Most of the balsa suppliers out there will hand-select wood for you, which lets you ask for A grain or C grain (C grain is Way Good for anything that just uses a slab of sheet, like a fin or stab). Most also list contest grade (less than 6lb/cubic foot) wood separately from 'regular old' wood.
If your wood comes in 36 x 3 x whatever sheets, it's pretty easy to get the density, because a 36 x 3 x 1 sheet that weighs 6oz is 6lb/ft^3 wood. So if you can stand doing just a bit of math, you just take your 36 x 3 wood, weigh it in ounces, then divide it by the thickness. Remember that to divide by 1/something means to multiply by the bottom number, so if it's 1/4 sheet you multiply the weight by four, if it's 1/8 sheet you multiply by 8, if it's 3/32 you remember that that's pretty darn close to 1/10 and multiply by 10, etc.