No idea on the border freq quesiton... it's like the tree falling in the forest as far as I'm concerned. The only sounds that matter are the ones I can hear and can cause loss, so I use a device to measure the potentially dangerous ones.
The Tandy (radioshack) Digital sound meter is the best I have found for the price, and provides A-C weighting for different curves. A-weighting is supposed to best represent sound pressure that can damage human hearing with emphasis on higher freqs and filtering out
some of the lower, and is what I use to measure our engines. C-weighting is more flat and includes more of the lower freqs.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A-weightingYou might get a 115db reading off of a TeeDee like I did with A weighting at the distance prescribed by AMA over grass (look it up, there are different suggested levels above ground and distance from plane for over grass vs/hard surfaces), but you will get something totally different with C weighting. Does that mean one is right or wrong? Nope... just measuring different parts of the sound.
Higher freq is more annoying and it is argued that it can do more damage, lower can be louder but much less painful, to a point, (witness 4-strokes).
Hope that helps,
EricV